Struggled to Adjust

"A story about isolation, anger, and the cost of losing oneself."

Chapter 10: Faculty Concerns

The faculty of Dalisay High School had begun to notice. A student who had once been known for his warmth, sociability, and kindness had transformed overnight into a serious behavioral and safety concern.


In the staff room, during lunch and between periods, teachers compared notes with growing alarm. There was the incident with Erin's ukulele–destroyed in rage. The incident with Simon–beaten during recess and covered in food. The violence directed at Janelle–the class president, assaulted in front of her own classroom. The outburst at the e-sports event–threatening an entire section of students. And then there were the smaller incidents: aggressive comments, threatening language, sudden mood swings that made everyone around him nervous.


The pattern was unmistakable: escalating behavioral issues with a deeply concerning trend toward violence.


Meetings were held. Sir Eliott Benitez, Bobby's English teacher and class adviser for 9-Golf, brought documentation to every meeting. "This is beyond normal teenage anger," he told the faculty committee. "This is something serious. We need to address it before someone gets seriously hurt."


Other faculty members shared their observations. Mrs. Florencia Capistrano, the 9-India adviser and TLE teacher, expressed concern about how Bobby's problems were affecting the entire school culture. Ms. Marilyn Espineda, the 10-Kilo adviser and Science teacher, noted in the group chat that "behavioral issues are escalating beyond just one section." Sir Joey Tanada, the 10-Lima adviser and Math teacher, expressed worry about the safety of all students. Sir Arturo Vergara Jr., the 9-Hotel adviser and Araling Panlipunan teacher, provided context about the bullying incidents. Ms. Ma. Alyssandra Villanueva, the 10-Juliett adviser and Filipino teacher, questioned whether more intervention from counseling or psychological services was needed. Even Sir Chester Johnson, the part-time MAPEH teacher for Grades 7-10, had noticed concerning behavior in his classes.


Letters went into Bobby's file–formal documentation, each one more ominous than the last. The school counselor conducted sessions with Bobby, but he remained largely uncommunicative, defensive, unwilling to open up. Warnings were issued–multiple warnings, each more severe than the previous, making it clear that further incidents would result in suspension or expulsion.


But the interventions remained frustratingly surface-level. They addressed the behavior–the punishments, the consequences–without addressing the root cause: a young man whose sense of identity and self-worth was fracturing, breaking apart, deteriorating beyond repair. No one knew how to reach him. No one knew how to bridge the gap between a system designed to punish and a student who needed help.


The faculty was caught in an impossible position: how do you help a student who won't accept help? How do you protect other students while also protecting the one who is hurting? "Marami na kaming ginawa," the principal said in one meeting, frustration evident in her voice. "Pero wala pa ring effect. He won't communicate. He won't engage with counseling. He just gets angrier."


No one had the answers. And time was running out.